Her behavior toward me personally crossed the line, and my spouse does not simply take my concerns really whenever I express my discomfort.
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After some duration ago we married an excellent girl after coping with her for a couple years. I will be a guy within my 70s, and my spouse is really a couple of years older than me personally. She's got a mature sis that is on the marriage that is third and a reputation during my wife’s household to be flirtatious and intensely manipulative. She's got been residing a long way away from us and visits 3 or 4 times per year.
My sister-in-law never paid any attention that is unusual me personally until we married. But from then on, every right time she visited, she'd single me away for compliments, saying...